Here's the logic: Men feel sex and love are different. Women feel...If you love me you won't have sex with another. What are your thoughts? Let me know.
vdofan, that's my point. It's how we describe love. It's our own definition of it. Women I think have a different view from men. Faithful is a totally different topic. I love the feedback. Please keep dropping your opinion.
Maybe years ago that was the logic ...but in this time that we live in now, love and sex have never been more seperate.. for women as well as men. Sex with one person is like a myth. (in my opinion)
T: Yep, we do. Think about it when you have sex with a woman and she thinks you hers for ever. It is because she feels that she has let down her guard to allow you to have a special part of her. I think it all boils down to how men and women are taught as children/teenagers to view sex/love.Women women are taught to view love and sex as if the are conjoined together and if they are not inlove with the man , married, ect then what they are doing opposite of the "guidelines" of what is a woman they are treated as whores, whereas men are taught that love and sex are not conjoined but are two opposite actions love is one and sex is another, so because of the seperation of the two if a male were to go out and have sex he's not a whore but the man.
owl: That logic is still apparent in today's time. It is that women have begun to repress the feeling that have when they are trying have a males mentality towards sex. Yes, because media and society hype sex as the best thing since bread people are loosing the ability to be discrete with their actions or have shame.
My opinions of love and sex are based on what Christ taught in the Bible and how he showed us how to love based on his love dor mankind. Theerefor I'm not so caught up in what a man or a woman thinks but what God thinks :)
Yes ,Jackson, you have a great point and outlook, However,there are two forms of love taught in the bible.The first is the love between a husband and wife, then the second is the love Christian's(+everyone) should have towards their fellow "man".
yep nykki that is true. I guess what I'm trying to say is that love to me whether it's husband and wife or what should be Christ led and that goes for sex too. When the Bible says you should wait until marriage or be faithful then that goes for both sexes no matter their personal feelings. This is my opinion.
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vdofan, that's my point. It's how we describe love. It's our own definition of it. Women I think have a different view from men. Faithful is a totally different topic. I love the feedback. Please keep dropping your opinion.
Maybe years ago that was the logic ...but in this time that we live in now, love and sex have never been more seperate.. for women as well as men. Sex with one person is like a myth. (in my opinion)
T: Yep, we do. Think about it when you have sex with a woman and she thinks you hers for ever. It is because she feels that she has let down her guard to allow you to have a special part of her. I think it all boils down to how men and women are taught as children/teenagers to view sex/love.Women women are taught to view love and sex as if the are conjoined together and if they are not inlove with the man , married, ect then what they are doing opposite of the "guidelines" of what is a woman they are treated as whores, whereas men are taught that love and sex are not conjoined but are two opposite actions love is one and sex is another, so because of the seperation of the two if a male were to go out and have sex he's not a whore but the man.
I could go on but I'm not! Take care
owl: That logic is still apparent in today's time. It is that women have begun to repress the feeling that have when they are trying have a males mentality towards sex. Yes, because media and society hype sex as the best thing since bread people are loosing the ability to be discrete with their actions or have shame.
My opinions of love and sex are based on what Christ taught in the Bible and how he showed us how to love based on his love dor mankind. Theerefor I'm not so caught up in what a man or a woman thinks but what God thinks :)
and yep........me likes my cop shows :)
Yes ,Jackson, you have a great point and outlook, However,there are two forms of love taught in the bible.The first is the love between a husband and wife, then the second is the love Christian's(+everyone) should have towards their fellow "man".
yep nykki that is true. I guess what I'm trying to say is that love to me whether it's husband and wife or what should be Christ led and that goes for sex too. When the Bible says you should wait until marriage or be faithful then that goes for both sexes no matter their personal feelings. This is my opinion.
If you love someone, you shouldn't tell them about the people you have sex with. That way, you won't hurt their feelings.
Okay. I'm an ass.
Jackson, I agree with your point. I wish more people shared it!!
Arch: hahaha. You're not an a** just being honest..
OW1: No, I swear I didn't sleep with anyone else while I was w/ you. I swears it!
Nykki: Thanks for believing in me :D
You knew what I meant, Archangelic.
otherworldlyone, your opioion counts. That's what this site is about!!
nykki, please don't stop!! This is about dialouge between the sexes. I love it! Keep it comming.
Jackson, after I read your profile, I needed you to come over and talk. I am interested in the "Christian" point of view, I appreciate the love.
Archangelic, your not an ass, we don't judge here. It's about being as honest and frank as you please. Keep talking.
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I love your opinion Kathy. It makes sense, keep it comming. Basicilly you're saying men want their cake and eat it too.
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